My prerequisite... Or is it???
We did something in class today. Well, it wasnt really meant to be how we wanted our future partners to be, but the text was very interesting... According to the german text i have gotten today, most of the couples that came to pass happen to have the same list altogether..(p.s., the below is just for fun. If anyone reading it happens to have the same list as me, please, for goodness sake, dont take it so serious!!!)
the 6th <= least important, but still important)
She must be intelligent, but not so until it scares me away...
the 5th)
She is someone who really doesnt need to offer solutions. I know that we guys like to offer solutions, but really ladies, save it. There are some guys out there who wants you to just be a good listening ear. Of course, it would be really good if she can stay with you through thick and thin, no matter what happens.
the 4th)
Understanding and tolerant. It is really sick to see ladies acting like shopping and having fun is all there is in their world. What guys really want is not some ladies coming up to them, pull out their hands and "begging" for cash... ARGH!!! sucks!!!! i hate this kind of ladies!! Ladies should be like a lady, able to keep themselves upright even when the situation is not right. Although i have to admit that some guys too have a big problem when staying calm and upright when the situation arises, but that's how things suppose to be. GOD made woman out of man because HE knows that man cannot survive by themselves. The woman has always this healing touch to calm a man down, and that's what it all about the meaning of two becoming as one.
the 3rd)
LOYAL!!!! This is like that most important thing to me, if i am going to find a future wife. This lady ( remember, i said lady.. i din say girl..) should be with me through thick and thin. That would be very good, but no possessiveness may be used on a man. We will feel that our ego have been drawn away and we can no longer keep hold of why a man is called a man.. LOYAL... Just like what was promised on the day of the wedding pledge.
the 2nd)
ATTRACTIVENESS!!! I am a guy, and of course i would like to have an attractive wife... Hey, but i am not taking about just the outwardly appearance. I really like a girl, whom i can see her inward beauty ( that's not when she takes off her clothes!!!)... Someone who is sweet and passionate for GOD, yet remaining her virtue as a lady... wa, sweeeeeeeeeeet!!!
the 1st!!!!)
We must be able to communicate. We share the room for talks, discuss everything together, and because of that, we are able to fall deeper in love with one another. I will never see the day, where after my marriage, my level of relationship for my lady will drop. Although it is very hard to say now, whether i will be the first one to break off a relationship or not, but one thing's for sure.... I will stay loving, no matter what extent it may be....
And there you have it... I have listed all my points out.. I hope that was interesting for you, because it was definitely interesting for me! :)
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